
I always make time for what's important. NSA is good but an ongoing casual thing would work too..Chat is good to get things going and I actually prefer to get a sense of the person that I am going to have to get used to not having in the same house with me all the time.
I hate being the source of anything other than fun and happiness for anyone and I feel mean by saying no,not interested. Someone who likes to be pleased orally and doesn't mind me taking my time.